Scammers want you to send money in advance and then ghost. We hate these fuckers and do our best to keep them off the site.
However, it's also common for legit entertainers to ask for deposits. They want to be sure they can count on you to show up.
So how do you tell legits from scammers?
Research. Any member on our site probably has several profiles across other sites. Search their phone number. Check around. Look for reviews, comments, active social media accounts, and personal websites. If post photos and wording is too good to be true or they offer risky fun, it’s probably a scammer.
DON'T BE A JERK
Take time to read and understand what the entertainer offers. Meeting strangers off the internet is risky and can expose one to abuse. If you chat and it doesn’t feel like you have a match, say thanks, have nice day – don’t insult them or be rude. Be nice. It feels good to be nice.
If you aren’t serious don’t message or call site members. It’s a waste of your time and theirs.
Most legit entertainers ask for SCREENINGS with new dates. This is for their safety, to be sure they aren’t walking into trap – so they can have some comfort about who they meet.